Just in case you don’t know, in the Loudoun County school sexual assault where the girl was raped and sodomized, sodomy includes oral, in either direction, and anal violation. I have no idea but would guess that the girl was forced to provide oral sex and not anal.
Now as a point of reference. when I was in law school in Florida, anal sex was termed in the statutes as the abominable and detestable crime against nature. I don’t believe it included oral sex, at least I hope so! Now it does.
My point is that any unwanted forcible sex in any way is and should be criminal, but consensual sex in any form should be legal. Just in case you didn’t follow the above, back in my day, consensual oral or anal sex was against the law. Leave consensual participants alone and prosecute ANY forced sex.